3.First steps...

Before I begin on the steps I am taking to become the best version of myself, I want to share the reasons or rather the advantages of becoming the best version of yourself. My example is rather cliché but it is through seeking for a romantic partner (I told you that it is a cliché). The topic of relationships and understanding the opposite sex or same sex always arises in conversations with friends, family and even strangers you meet at a braai. For me the topic always popped its head every time I spoke to a specific friend, I explained to him my ideal relationship and partner in crime (recognise I added relationship, because you cannot have two, great, individuals but they are not able to work together to build a bond. You might as well build your house on the shore where the sea’s strong currents can destroy what you built so easily to the ground):

“I want to be spiritually compatible with my partner, keyword compatible. The reason I put emphasis on compatible, is so that I remember that this is something I need to put my full attention and importance on when getting to know a person. Some say opposites attract but it is pointless having the attraction, but after all the attraction has left the building there is no compatibility, whatsoever! Now when I say I am looking and waiting for a partner where we are soulfully compatible. What I mean exactly is, being two INDIVIDUALS that make a great WHOLE when we are ONE, but can also be great when we are not together, but we would rather be an amazing one because it is best, in our opinion, therefore we will both be the best partners so we don’t AFFECT the whole”.

Getting back to turning things around and making changes to become the best YOU, one must be willing to make drastic measures of stopping old, comfortable habits to create good habits during this lock down. The classic definition of insanity is, ‘doing things the same way but expecting a different result.’ (Franklin. D & Good. M. 2016. The Wait. Howard books: New York). With that being said, next week Thursday we will move forward on how to stop old nasty habits.

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