Reality Check!

As people we sometimes ask or wish or hope for things that are already given to us, but unfortunately, we want more than we can handle/have. We are forever having these unrealistic lists, that are a distraction and no longer their purpose, which is to guide us. Example:

I have a friend, who has this man that likes her more than just friends and has done the most I have ever seen a modern man does in these lazy ages (I blame technology) from picnics, to surprise gifts, calls every day, mind you she is always smiling and laughing the most when she is around him (besides me obviously, I am quite the funny bone, I think) and just treating her like a queen…Somehow she always made excuses as to why she didn’t want to be more than friends, even though she was describing the exact man that she had to God but did not want him.

In the above example, he may have not ticked all the boxes but he ticked the important boxes, but once again, the description of her ideal man came with more and ended up being a distraction.

My advice to you is; have a list on what you can compromise on, what are the non-negotiables, 3 good qualities that you want and 3 bad qualities that you know will make you walk away asap! Quality over quantity, that is what I am basically trying to say.

For some of us, it will take time for us to notice what we have is in front of us. For others, we might have to put in the extra work to get what we want. Some of you just need to scrap some unrealistic things on that list. Start a fresh, work with what you have and climb from there (applies to all departments of life).

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